Once Warned A “Mindy Project” Guest Star “Tell Anyone And You’re Fired” After She Kissed Him During Filming And It’s Seriously Not OK

“How did she think she’d come out looking like the good guy in that story?”

Stephanie Soteriou

Stephanie Soteriou

BuzzFeed News Reporter

LOS ANGELES – Indo-American actor-writer-producer Minday Kailing is facing some heat after coming under-fire for lying about cancel culture and kissing a fellow actor without permission.

In December, Mindy Kaling came under fire after she was accused of “lying” about “cancel culture” when she made some strange claims about the US sitcom The Office, reported BuzzFeed.

Mindy served as a writer, executive producer, and director on the show, while also starring as Kelly Kapoor.

With some of its most episodes having eyebrow-raising titles such as “Diversity Day,” “Sexual Harassment,” and “Gay Witch Hunt,” the satirical comedy series gained a reputation for displaying some of the most cringeworthy moments in a humorous, mockumentary style.

But during an appearance on Good Morning America last year, Mindy claimed that “most of the characters” on The Office would be “canceled” if the show was made today.

 “The writers who I’m still in touch with now, we always talk about how so much of that show we probably couldn't make now,” she explained, while describing it as “so inappropriate.”

But fans were left rolling their eyes at Mindy’s comments, pointing out that the show’s long-running success is proof that its concept still appeals to fans.

And just two months later, Mindy is facing even more backlash for comments made about another one of her shows in a resurfaced interview clip.

Following the success of The Office, Mindy landed her self-titled comedy series The Mindy Project in 2012, which ran until 2017.

Here, Mindy plays Mindy Lahiri, an obstetrician and gynecologist who is trying to find love in New York — which means that she worked alongside plenty of handsome guest stars over the years.

One of them was actor Lee Pace, who plays Alexander “Xander” Eakin in a Season 3 episode of the show, where it is revealed that he is the man that Mindy lost her virginity to in college.

One of Lee’s scenes is a flashback to Mindy and Xander in bed together after having sex. Despite the circumstances, the conversation is mostly about tech-obsessed Xander’s recently created website and there is zero intimacy between the two characters.

But not every take was filmed in that way, with Mindy admitting in a 2016 interview that she added an unscripted kiss to this scene during filming because Lee is “so tall” and “so handsome.”

In the clip, which has come under scrutiny after it recently resurfaced online, Mindy goes on to say that she told Lee “tell anyone and you’re fired” after the show’s crew warned her that she could be sued for what she had done.

Mindy made the admission during an appearance on the late-night talk show Conan, after host Conan O'Brien asked her: “Do you ever feel like having that much power on your show has led to you being unprofessional? Because power can corrupt.”

 “I think the temptation is there and I have succumbed to that temptation,” Mindy replied immediately. “We’ve had a lot of handsome actors on the show and I am a professional, I can be around handsome guys and I can behave like a lady.”

 “But we had this one actor on the show named Lee Pace…” she went on. “A real gentleman. He came on the show and we had to do this flashback sequence where we were in bed together in college and we’re just supposed to be having a conversation.”

 “But he’s so tall and he’s so handsome that in the middle of that he was just supposed to be like, ‘What do you think, Mindy?’ and I was like—” At this point, Mindy imitated kissing him.

 “I improvised just kissing him in the scene, which was not in the script,” she said with a laugh. “He was looming above me and he asked me a question and I was not listening to him at all, because who cares what he was saying? I was like mhm, mhm, mwah.”

As the host and the audience laughed at the anecdote, Mindy admitted that Lee had a shocked reaction to the impromptu kiss, and she said: “I pretended it didn’t happen and then I walked backstage.”

Here she recalled two of the show’s writer-producers saying: “Hey man, what are you doing?! You could be sued for that!”

 “And I got very scared,” Mindy confessed. “Then I said: ‘Tell anyone and you’re fired.’”

Laughing as she went on, the actor said of Lee: “I think he might have been like: ‘Did it happen or did it not?’ I just don’t need our side to confirm it or anything.”

Encouraging Mindy, Conan responded: “So basically that’s going to be happening a lot more now too because you got away with it?”

At this point, Mindy crossed her fingers and joked: “I’m the kissing bandit! Listen, he didn’t complain about it, it’s fine. No one said anything, no one reported anything.”

But there are plenty of people who think that Mindy’s anecdote is far from “fine,” and she has been called out after people watched the clip earlier this month.

Stitching the Conan interview in a TikTok video, one user said: “Oh that’s gross. It’s not funny, it’s not cheeky. No, that’s really gross. Like, you said ‘tell anyone, you’re fired’ because you sexually assaulted somebody.”

 “He’s at work, you’re at work,” the TikToker then repeated. “What are you doing? There are people, if you want to kiss him, if you thought it would benefit the scene, there are intimacy coordinators available!”

And viewers overwhelmingly agreed in the video's comments, with many sharing their shock at Mindy recounting this story on a TV show as though it is a joke.

Mindy’s reps have not yet commented on the controversy.

Courtesy BuzzFeed