During COVID-19, man has been quarantined in invisible cells.  Social distancing, restriction on the free flow of breath and clear speech (mask), crossing one another’s path, looking at each other with suspicion and touching things randomly have caused emotional upheavals.  Man is a bundle of emotions. Of all emotions, anger has an upper hand and is the most destructive force.  “Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.”- Mark Twain

By Zile Singh

Anger is a basic human emotion that is experienced by all people in different situations.  The duration of an angry mood depends upon several factors and an individual's mental make up. Anger occurs when one feels injured, mistreated, oppressed, opposed in one's long- held views and beliefs, or when one is not able to achieve certain goals in life. Some synonyms of it are: rage, wrath, irritation, displeasure, annoyance, ill-feeling, resentment, exasperation, provocation, nettle etc. Anger doesn't solve anything. But it can dissolve everything.  In the state of anger, you feel hot, your nervous system shakes and a tremor is felt all over the body. It is a short spell of madness. It is interesting to note that sometimes one becomes angry with one’s own bad performance and behaviour. I have seen some of my colleagues who broke their club when they hit a bad shot in the game of Golf. We have seen good players having thrashed and thrown their rackets after bad shots in Tennis and Badminton games. 

In biological terms, anger is an essential element of life under certain circumstances only. If a person does not express his anger in any grave situation when it is required in the right proportion, then it is considered that something is missing. As per Good reads, “Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody's power and is not easy.” At right time and in right proportion it enhances life. Now the prime issue is how to handle the emotion of anger and convert it into a beneficial productive energy. Knowing that anger is so harmful to humanity, the sages and saints meditated and came to the conclusion that through awareness and witnessing it neutrally without any judgment, anger can be transformed into a positive energy. If you become aware of your anger, understanding penetrates and anger disappears. Unfortunately, we are told to control and suppress anger. The suppression of anger without a proper understanding is dangerous. Because at that particular time you will be able to control it out of the fear of its consequences, but by suppressing it has gone deep into your unconscious mind and it will emerge again in two-fold when it finds the right atmosphere. The solution is: you have to go to the root cause of anger. The root is always a desire which has been blocked and that frustration has created anger. Analyze that desire. It might be a futile and unworthy desire. Control the desire and try to be non-serious and playful. Anger is something that we all deal with. It can take control if not addressed. For every second we remain angry we damage our peace of mind.

Gurdjieff, a well known Swiss psychologist said that a small thing transformed his life completely. He explains that his father was dying and he called him and advised that “Whenever you feel angry, wait for twenty four hours and then do whatever you want to do. Anger is either instant or it is not. Anger functions when you are unconscious.” If you are conscious for twenty four seconds only, then you cannot be angry. One must be aware of the following dictum: “He, who angers you, conquers you and if a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?” 

The need of the day is to understand anger in its right perspective. The world often continues to allow evil because it is not angry enough. As an example, it allowed the unprofessional religious priests who have been exploiting the innocent and ignorant masses in the names of the Rama, the Krishna, the Buddhas, the Christs and the Prophets for centuries. They preached to suppress the most basic emotions and instincts of human being like hunger, anger, inquiry and sex. It was a deliberate attempt to make human beings weak so that nobody can question their false authority and put up a logical point of view for fear of so many illogical assumptions. The suppression of the above- mentioned emotions and instincts gave birth to some other harmful situations. The result is quite clear that today the so-called preachers, the Babas and maniacs are having a craving for food (material), violence (anger), false propaganda (non-inquiry) and physical abuse (sex). The world is not angry enough even today to teach good lessons to such corrupt elements in the society who instead of making people  understand the instincts like anger, among others, are advocating to suppress it or put aside temporarily. Instead, they are stealing the innocent masses of their wealth, health and character and finally their lives. Anger will not vanish unless love, compassion and right understanding arise. It needs transformation and not annihilation. 

“You will not be punished for your anger. You will be punished by your anger” – The Buddha

 Zile Singh is a well respected Columnist, Writer, a Vipassana Meditator and has a Post-Graduate Diploma in Human Rights.  He can be reached at zsnirwal@yahoo.ca